Burdens
One of my firm beliefs is that grudges are too heavy for me to carry around. Why bother? Often times they just hurt you and the "offending party" is oblivious to your turmoil. Forgive. Forget. Maybe "distinctly remember forgetting" (I don't know who said it, but it's not original to me) so your not in some unhealthy cycle, but there are so many things in life that we can't do anything about. We can, however, take control over some of our burdens and drop them. Drop the grudge and feel that weight lifted off. Don't wait until you get the hard knock reminder that it was silly to be upset about such a silly little thing. Just my humble opinion....